"Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They came through you but not from you and though they are with you yet they belong not to you." -- Kahlil Gibran
Working outside of the home doesn't create the guilt. Mothers feel guilty whether they work for pay or not. Countless moms feel guilty when they are not with their children. So it's not a "working mothers" problem, it's a pervasive cultural problem.
It is important to teach stress management to our kids. As adults, we are more able to adapt to stressful situations, but children need to learn these tools from a young age.
Do you ever feel like you are the one parent who is doing it all wrong? I was just reading about Hothouse Kids and the trouble with “giftedness” in our quest to be special. What is the deal with superstar (Hothouse) kids and their parents? Why do we compare ourselves, and our children, to them?
Making the decision to homeschool can be a pretty big deal, and fairly intimidating. For me it was scarier than deciding to jump out of an airplane. So many questions kept running through my head. The main one, of course, was choosing whether to do it…
Children are not seekers of great truth; it overwhelms them. A sadness occurs within each child, a sadness that remains when values are imposed which force upon them a highly restrictive right-wrong system of living…a system which may shut down and confuse their innate ability to make conscious, conscientious choices.